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Some children make friends easily. Others hover at the edge of the playground, struggle to lose a game, or come home saying, “Nobody wants to play with me.”
Social skills for kids can be taught and practised — and home is the safest place to start. Pick one skill at a time.
Games like Snap, Uno or Snakes and Ladders practise waiting, turn-taking and losing well. Agree beforehand what a good loser says: “Good game!” Then let your child lose sometimes.
“I’m frustrated because the traffic is slow.” “Look at his face — how do you think he feels?” Pause cartoons and picture books to ask what a character is thinking.
Practise asking to join a game, saying hello to a new classmate, or responding to an unkind comment. Take turns playing each part. Two or three minutes is enough.
“When I want to join a game, I can say, ‘Can I play too?’ Sometimes they say yes. Sometimes they say not now. That’s okay — I can find another game.”
Read it together before the situation happens.
Try question tennis: everyone asks a follow-up question before sharing their own news.
One friend, about an hour, with a planned activity like baking or Lego.
Before: “At the party, remember to say hi to the birthday girl.” After: “I saw you let Aiden go first. That was kind.”
The goal isn’t a social butterfly. One close friend is perfectly fine. Don’t force eye contact, especially for autistic children — and remember that watching from the side can be a first step.
Consider help if your child rarely has friends to play with, is often excluded or teased, has frequent conflicts with peers, or feels lonely or anxious about friendships.
Our social skills training helps children build confidence with friends and feelings, and we work with parents so skills carry over to home and school. Book a consultation or WhatsApp us.
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