A parent’s question about ADHD medication drew hundreds of comments in a support group. I can understand why. As a former teacher, a mother and a psychologist, I see different sides of the decision.
As a teacher, I remember how difficult it was for a child who struggled to stay focused or manage impulses—and how that affected classmates too. I wanted that child to have a better chance to learn and take part in lessons.
As a mother, I understand the worries: Will medication affect my child’s appetite or sleep? Will they still seem like themselves? Will they need it forever?
As a psychologist, I’ve seen medication help some children considerably. I’ve also seen why family support, classroom strategies and other interventions still matter. Medication is one possible part of a plan, not a measure of how hard a parent has tried.
My view has changed over time. I no longer think families must exhaust every other option before discussing medication. The better question is: What support will help this child now, and how will we know whether it is working?
If you’re weighing the decision, discuss the likely benefits, possible side effects and a review plan with your child’s prescribing doctor. The goal is to help your child learn and thrive while listening to how they feel.
Still have doubts about medications for ADHD? Talk to our psychologist today.

